Due Date
Today is Lauren's due date. While I would love for Brendan to born today, Lauren and I don't think its going to happen. Lauren told me yesterday that only 5% of women give birth on their due date. If Brendan is anything like his mother and father he is going to be late. Lauren had a doctor's appointment yesterday and the doctor told her that she was 3cm dilated, at 4cm they admit you to the hospital. So he could really come at any time.
I'm more anxious than I am nervous. I'm the type of person that likes to peek at Christmas, and this anticipation is killing me. I want to know if he's going to have Lauren's pug nose or my big ears, if he'll have her thick hair or be bald like his daddy(we're thinking bald because she hasn't had much heartburn). I just want to hold him and let him know how much I love him.
Everyone loves keeps telling how much my life is going to change and how I won't get any sleep. They like to ask me if I'm ready and tell me my life I as I know it is over. Just to let everyone know, I am ready. I'm ready for my life to change, I've been cruising through life and I am glad to take on the responsibility of raising a child. I can't wait to tell him my dumb jokes, share all my useless knowledge, and teach him about life.
I am so proud of Lauren. She has been great throughout the whole pregnancy. She quit smoking and drinking. She had to deal with moving during the hottest week of the summer and the house being a total mess while I was working on it. She has put up with me going out drinking and my friends coming over all wasted, while I gave her the excuse, 'I need to do it while I still can.' She has made it through Brendan drop kicking her ribs, messing with her hormones, and stretching out her belly. I can't even imagine the pain she will go through during labor. Lauren, I want you to know how much I appreciate what you have had to go through, and I love you more than you could know. Now give birth already!
For most of you, the next time you see me and Lauren, you will see the proud parents of Brendan Patrick Carroll.
I'm more anxious than I am nervous. I'm the type of person that likes to peek at Christmas, and this anticipation is killing me. I want to know if he's going to have Lauren's pug nose or my big ears, if he'll have her thick hair or be bald like his daddy(we're thinking bald because she hasn't had much heartburn). I just want to hold him and let him know how much I love him.
Everyone loves keeps telling how much my life is going to change and how I won't get any sleep. They like to ask me if I'm ready and tell me my life I as I know it is over. Just to let everyone know, I am ready. I'm ready for my life to change, I've been cruising through life and I am glad to take on the responsibility of raising a child. I can't wait to tell him my dumb jokes, share all my useless knowledge, and teach him about life.
I am so proud of Lauren. She has been great throughout the whole pregnancy. She quit smoking and drinking. She had to deal with moving during the hottest week of the summer and the house being a total mess while I was working on it. She has put up with me going out drinking and my friends coming over all wasted, while I gave her the excuse, 'I need to do it while I still can.' She has made it through Brendan drop kicking her ribs, messing with her hormones, and stretching out her belly. I can't even imagine the pain she will go through during labor. Lauren, I want you to know how much I appreciate what you have had to go through, and I love you more than you could know. Now give birth already!
For most of you, the next time you see me and Lauren, you will see the proud parents of Brendan Patrick Carroll.
posted by Gootman at 10/11/2006 12:00:00 PM
2 Comments:
That's great, man. I think you are both ready too. Your life is going to change, I'm sure, but you've done everything possible to prepare for it. When I look back, I can see that your life has already changed dramatically in the past nine months, since the time that I was in Arizona and you told me the news.
You've created a loving place for your family to start, and I really believe you're going to be a great dad. I'm looking forward to being an uncle again, and to how special Brendan is going to be to me, your friends, and your family.
I'll always be there if you, Lauren, or Brendan need anything.
Hey there new dad -
First, this is some really great writing. I know how much it means to be a father, and how much emotion it generates. You have done a good job getting your thoughts out for all of us to reflect on.
You'll be a good dad. Change happens no matter what, but it sure seems like you two have been working hard both physially and mentally to prepare.
I'll tell you that I thought I was ready, and was still surprised at how different my life became. Keep yourself open to the possibility of change and growth and you will be fine.
Best,
Chris
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