We're Having a Baby!
So Lauren came over after work on Sunday (2/12/06) and said she had to tell me something... She told me that she was pregnant. She took another home test in front of me and it said pregnant. She went to the doctor the next day and the doctor confirmed that she was pregnant. She got a sonogram which revealed she was 5 1/2 weeks pregnant and the baby already had a heart beat. The baby is 4.2mm. I was completely shocked and immediately nervous.
When she first told me on Sunday, right away 15 billion thoughts started running through my head like: Holy Shit, how did this happen, how are we gonna afford this, does she want a baby now, how am I going to tell my family, is she just messing with me, its gonna be a boy or a girl, and tons more of things...
On Monday night we had a good discussion where we decided we are going go through with this together. I'm glad that we have such open communication together and we can easily and honestly talk things out with each other. We figure as long as we are both are commited we can get through this together. Earlier that day I started looking at the internet on what I could expect and how far along she was, http://www.paternityangel.com has some good information for expecting fathers.
Tuesday night was Valentine's Day we both took off and spent the day together, I got her a Sonicare Toothbrush
, Stargazer Lillies and some Hersey's Pot O' Gold chocolates. I made some Shrimp Alfredo from scratch(and it was good, not bad for a beginner cook) and we watched Walk the Line. I have never felt closer to Lauren.
By Wednesday Lauren had told alot of people (Her friends, her family, some work people) but I hadn't told anyone. I ended up telling Matt over IM, and immediately i got a bit emotional, it was the first time it completely sunk in... I wasn't upset or happy, i was just overcome with emotions that I had bottled up, I didn't tell anyone but I really felt it then. I told told Walklett later that night and both Walklett and Matt both had just about the same intial response... Holy Shit dude.
I still haven't told my parents yet, it makes me extremely nervous to even think about telling them. I think once I tell my Mom I will be able to relax a bit more and start enjoying this all. I think we are going tell my Mom tonight.
How far along we are: 6 weeks
What I'm feeling: Nervous
What Lauren is thinking: How big her breasts are gonna be
Baby Stats: 4.2mm and can see the heartbeat
Websites we like: http://www.paternityangel.com http://www.americanpregnancy.org
P.S. I suck at writing and sharing my feelings, so bear with me
When she first told me on Sunday, right away 15 billion thoughts started running through my head like: Holy Shit, how did this happen, how are we gonna afford this, does she want a baby now, how am I going to tell my family, is she just messing with me, its gonna be a boy or a girl, and tons more of things...
On Monday night we had a good discussion where we decided we are going go through with this together. I'm glad that we have such open communication together and we can easily and honestly talk things out with each other. We figure as long as we are both are commited we can get through this together. Earlier that day I started looking at the internet on what I could expect and how far along she was, http://www.paternityangel.com has some good information for expecting fathers.
Tuesday night was Valentine's Day we both took off and spent the day together, I got her a Sonicare Toothbrush
By Wednesday Lauren had told alot of people (Her friends, her family, some work people) but I hadn't told anyone. I ended up telling Matt over IM, and immediately i got a bit emotional, it was the first time it completely sunk in... I wasn't upset or happy, i was just overcome with emotions that I had bottled up, I didn't tell anyone but I really felt it then. I told told Walklett later that night and both Walklett and Matt both had just about the same intial response... Holy Shit dude.
I still haven't told my parents yet, it makes me extremely nervous to even think about telling them. I think once I tell my Mom I will be able to relax a bit more and start enjoying this all. I think we are going tell my Mom tonight.
How far along we are: 6 weeks
What I'm feeling: Nervous
What Lauren is thinking: How big her breasts are gonna be
Baby Stats: 4.2mm and can see the heartbeat
Websites we like: http://www.paternityangel.com http://www.americanpregnancy.org
P.S. I suck at writing and sharing my feelings, so bear with me
posted by Gootman at 2/17/2006 04:16:00 PM
4 Comments:
After reading the way you've expressed yourself during this very new and probably intimidating time, my immediate feeling is that this is a great blessing. I've never heard you talk about something with so much emotion, not even the Eagles. I'm looking forward to the updates along the way...
Congratulations to you and Lauren!!
I am so excited to have another grandchild. This will be exciting time in your life. I am not at all worried, I see how much you two love each other, and love will get you through the tough times. Lauren welcome to our family! Just remember family helps family, and we will always be there for you both. Congratulations!!
First Congratulations!
When Lauren told me about the pregnancy I jumped out of my seat and hugged her. I know this wasn’t planned and she was nervous but I couldn’t help but feel so happy. Lauren made me swear not to tell anyone which was a huge feat for me.
I’ve known Scooter for a little over 6 years and I kind of worried about Scooter’s lack of ambition w/ the ladies. I used to try to encourage him to the point I think he wanted hit me in the head w/ a monitor. Soooo, when I found out he was dating Lauren I was so excited for him and very impressed. Meeting Lauren is like having someone rip the blinds open in a dark room on a sunny day. She’s always so happy and bubbly that it’s contagious. Scott, I think you are going to be a great Father! Lauren, you are so beautiful inside and out. I’m glad Scott has you in his life. I’m so happy that you both found one another and I know this will be a wonderful experience for you both. I thank you for sharing…..
First of all congrats to both of you! I was so excited when I heard the news. Scott you're an awesome person and will be great as a daddy. Lauren, I do not know you very well but from the few times I have met you I can tell you are a kind and caring individual and your pure excitement is proof that you will be a great mom! I know what you guys are going through as I sit here a mother of 2 small children (one who was born this past October 11!!!!) Things do happen for a reason and the man upstairs does take care of things. Good luck to both of you on your new beginning!!! Feel free to ask me anything or just chat - I listen pretty well!
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